Licking is just the entry, but pouring your heart out and speaking honestly is the real way in.

For those who always want to establish a persona, appear noble, but are actually poor and sour (uh, I mean Old Deng), the most unbearable thing is that kind of concrete, heartfelt honesty.

They don't start by praising you; instead, they tell you a story.

This story involves specific people, time, and place (not too obviously fake), has some distance but also a connection to you, and certain details can make you empathize and resonate. At this point, they might say:

I know this is very difficult, but only you can do this.

Or, even more harshly: Hey, I’ve asked so many people, then list xxx, xxx, but after talking to them, only you can do it, and I can rest assured.

Then add: I don’t have much money, but this is my heartfelt gesture within my ability xx (this price must be higher than the market rate).

I swear… this isn’t just human kindness, it’s a debt.