The 15 truths about relationships that are laid bare for you, don't refuse to believe:

1. After 30, a man basically has no love left. Before that, he has already loved others unreservedly. Don’t disbelieve it; you really can’t warm his heart.
2. Women should look for a man who has experienced everything, rather than someone who has seen nothing (referring to worldly experience, not emotional experience).
3. To see if someone is naive, just look at the number of their exes. The more exes, the more likely they are to be a scumbag. But there’s an exception—some may be naive but lack love.
4. Don’t easily accept gifts from the opposite sex; free things always come with a price.
5. In love, cherish your body and health. Don’t have an abortion for any man, and the longer you cohabit, the harder it is to get married.
6. Don’t love too quickly or too fully. Love your partner 70%, love yourself 30%. Sincerely give without asking where it leads.
7. You can choose not to marry a man your parents approve of, but never marry someone they disapprove of.
8. No matter how sweet the relationship, it will change after marriage—whether you like it or not.
9. You can date someone without money, but you must marry someone with money, even if their earnings just cover expenses.
10. Whom you marry and whether you marry at all, you will regret eventually. Make the choice that makes you feel most at peace.
11. Buying a car, buying a house, and relationship principles—these must be settled before marriage. Don’t expect changes after marriage.
12. Women’s lack of charm makes them think men are unfaithful; men’s lack of strength makes them think women are materialistic.
13. Don’t date or build a marriage with someone who asks you for money. True love is I have, I give you; no need to ask. Being with someone who demands is inherently draining.
14. Marriage is about sharing life together; solving money issues can almost resolve 99% of problems.
15. The two most reliable things in life are wealth and wisdom. All other relationships will end; focus on your own growth.